Prince Harry slammed for saying King Charles isn’t ‘made for single parenthood’

Prince Harry has faced criticism for his candid remarks about King Charles III in his memoir “Spare,” where he suggests that his father may not have been well-suited for the role of a parent.

In the book, Harry delves deep into his personal experiences and relationships within the royal family, particularly highlighting the emotional distance he felt from his father, an issue that became more pronounced after the death of his mother, Princess Diana, in 1997.

Harry’s reflections include various anecdotes that illuminate the complexities of his relationship with Charles. One particularly telling moment recounted in the memoir occurred when Harry and his brother, Prince William, were young and returning to the UK aboard the Royal Yacht Britannia. The scene captured by the press at the time underscored the contrasting approaches to parenting between Charles and Diana, reported Daily Express.

Harry, the Duke of Sussex, wrote: “He’d always given an air of not being quite ready for parenthood: the responsibilities, the patience, the time. Even he, though a proud man, would have admitted as much. But single-parenthood? Pa was never made for that. To be fair, he tried.”

Now, royal reporter Charles Rae has refuted Harry’s claims that Charles was ill-suited for parenthood. During his interview with The Sun’s Royal Exclusive show, he said: “This is why one of the things Harry said in his book Spare about his father was so so wrong.

“Diana and Charles had just finished a job…Diana walks up the gangplank, Charles is very polite, he stands there and says ‘hello’ to the captain, first officer, and cook,” said Rae. “Diana ignores them all and runs practically down the gangplank with her arms wide open and the boys rushed up to her – and that’s the picture that made the newspapers all over the world,” he added. 

According to Harry, as they disembarked, Diana rushed towards them with open arms, eager to embrace her sons. In contrast, Charles took a more reserved approach, choosing first to exchange greetings with the ship’s crew. This portrayal feeds into a broader narrative Harry sets forth in his memoir, suggesting that while Diana was warm and demonstrative, Charles often appeared detached or preoccupied with duties and protocol, aspects of his royal role that, in Harry’s view, left little room for the warmth and engagement he sought from a parent.

The moment is reflective of the ongoing theme in the book of the differing parenting styles between his parents, which Harry felt had a significant impact on him and his brother. The publication of these reflections has sparked a wide range of responses, with critics arguing that Harry’s public sharing of such personal grievances is inappropriate and may undermine the royal family’s public image.

Supporters, however, commend his openness, viewing it as a brave attempt to share his side of the story and to highlight the human challenges that exist even within the highest echelons of society. The debate over Harry’s comments is indicative of the broader tension that exists between the traditional expectations of royal conduct and the modern desire for authenticity and emotional openness.

This tension is at the heart of many of the challenges Harry has described facing in his life, from his mental health struggles to his decision, along with his wife Meghan Markle, to step back from senior royal duties and seek a life outside the direct influence of the royal establishment. As Prince Harry continues to navigate his post-royal life, his revelations in “Spare” provide a window into the personal costs of royal duty and the complex dynamics of a family that is at once extraordinarily public and deeply private.

The fallout from these revelations continues to fuel discussions about the role of the monarchy in contemporary Britain and the balance between public expectations and individual well-being in the lives of those born into the royal spotlight.