To Love Her, First Understand Her

 To Love Her, First Understand Her

Understanding relationships is the key ingredient to strengthen relationships. It is rather a process women need to be implemented on more than men. So, to love a woman, first, it is important to understand her.

“The reality of the other person is not in what he reveals to you, but in what he cannot reveal to you. Therefore, if you would understand him, listen not to what he says but rather what he does not say”, Says Kahlil Gibran. As you enjoy aura of budding love relationship, the thing to keep in mind is to know the person seriously you have to be with for sometime or for lifetime.

Understanding at the primary stage of love helps making love life easier and the in-depth understanding in ongoing relationship makes it stronger than before. So, without denying the fact, one must endeavor to understand her love lady if he has to tie most trusted relation with her.

Factors leading to understanding:

Know her likes and dislikes
Know her daily routine
Know her priorities
Know her problems
Know the challenges she is facing
Pay her attention
Pay her due respect
Admire her, encourage her
These very factors are an easy gateway to understand her or to make her love you as well if she does not. But hopelessly these factors are considered at an earlier stage of love life and slowly vanish onwards after marriage. This is the hurtful attitude causing distances apart. So, the core essence is not to understand her at times but to know her for always.

With the passage of time relationships become dwindling. So, that is the peak time to cure your relation, and that again possible by understanding only. Once you read the heart of your love lady it would always be working for you in building a timeless relation.

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